Life

We All should matter, no matter what the shade of our skin, but alas, we all don't, so we need to do better as a country. How can we help other places and spaces , how can we be the beacon of light when our history has so much dark? We deserve better, I deserve better, we can be better. MATTERS.....

So, the world is changing. It is a fact and as much as we ALL like to see it in black and white, it's really not. It is many colors. So many people are up in arms over race relations. Why? Because you gotta stand in your truth, things, very bad things have been done, and are still being done. Lies have been told, history warped. But in order for us as a whole to move forward, we must embrace and acknowledge and speak truth. Yes! truth hurts! but it leads to growth. Lying and hiding the truth, pretending things didn't happen, helps nobody, it angers most. We have been taught that we should learn from the past mistakes, but that can only happen if you acknowledge that mistakes were made. I so tire of blowharded, windbagged people polluting my air with super silly words and sentences and phrases that mean nada, but enrage the masses! This is a age of great learning, so why are we not learning, learning to love, respect, each other, care about each other. We is it al

So America Land of Brave, home of the free could have the first woman president? The Party affiliation does not matter to me as much as talking to menfolk and venting them. Most would pick anybody other than a woman... Which led me to think, is it because she is not deemed pretty and soft feeling, is it because she is not little and plastic filled with just the right amount of pumps and bumps... I don't think it's all about policy, I think a lot is a Man's vision of what a woman should look like. Her voice is not soft and alluring, but she has a in your face voice filled with big words and plans, and outlines. Could this land of the free, be on the down low hating? The men all look funny they are not hot nor sexy in this decade or the last, but no one expects them to be, they will be leader of the free world. So why is it every man I chat with who usually mentions her name, turn up their nose slightly, oh so slightly. Her IQ is scary high, her qualifications

First let me say it's been awhile since I watched the entire Bill Boards...music has gotten so same sometimes, a lot of shows don't appeal to me any longer. I enjoyed Brittney Spears, it took me back to a time before Men O Pause...when life seemed not so hectic, when dating was really fun and done in person...lol Meghan Trainor and 5th harmony were fun to watch ... I enjoyed watching the crowd look at the Go Go's, clearly the young ladies or the millennials had no clue how cool these gals are, I just needed Bananarama to make it perfect...I know that would have cleared the front rows for sure..hahahahah DNCE my hot weather song, just because it requires no thought just fun! Ri Ri did a nice songbird job channeling her inner "Etta". Madge who was dressed as a Elvis Impersonator, sang Sinead O'Connors big hit.......I do realize Prince wrote it, but that song for her voice range? Then Stevie, then the Purple Rain song, yet again.....So much opportunity was

Never in my life have I felt such a dark feeling. The world seems much colder. My country has revealed, they can't handle the shade of the brown that I wear, they can't handle a leader that don't look like them. Then their is slavery..it happen, Stand in your truth and acknowledge the ugly, only then we can move forward, and remember so we don't repeat. We gloss over color like it don't matter, but it does, that's the way people are in general. The police, the ones we should run to for help, we often must avoid, this ain't new, I've been hearing real life stories since I was a little girl who grew up with STRESS. It must be acknowledged and addressed, I'm sick of people trying gloss over it like it's just paranoia or if you didn't break the law....yeah, but, but what laws exactly state death by shooting or beating because of jaywalking, petty misdemeanors? Everyone has an opinion, until trouble comes your way. Drugs...the new one of ch

My newly single friends come in a variety of shades, shapes and desires, but one thing always seems true. The men bounce back faster and get back in the swimming pool of dating before a lot of the women. Men will comb over, tuck in belly and all, put on those Mr. Green Jeans blue jeans and get out there, meanwhile we are in the gym or the kitchen or online...... I admit, I replaced some good loving with food, it happens, good love=chocolate and all the yummies, but i'm back to exercise, as I've discovered, once you cross another age bridge, evicting fat requires more. It sets up apartments, houses and condos, so I really gotta push push push....., 80/20% now 90/10% workouts. Some of my girlfriends, date online..which always have creeped me out. I don't do blind dates, so why would I do online...eww. I don't want to be catfished which is pretty much a con, some boob figuring you will get to know them first through the fairy tales they post online, they by the time

I remember college time, in a different time. We must prepare our young adults so much better than we were. Girls and Guys protect your most important asset...YOU. Be cautious yet have fun, don't drink to pass out, everybody is not your friend and hope for your success. Technology can be damaging, so you need to think about your behavior for real, due to the fact, lights, cameras and action people are all around. Guard your privacy. Guard your heart, know that everybody don't love the same, they love for the moment, the feeling of euphoria, the superficial level of sexlove. Enjoy growing up, enjoy meeting new people and having new interactions, but as a adult, protect yourself, disease is real, std, permanent td's ie, herpes, aids, hiv, etc..., So love freely but love with a strong caution, and it's okay to say no. If the mood is not to be, pass, their is no shortage of people. Condoms are cheap and if you don't protect you, who will? Drugs, don't

So Black lives Matters, All Lives Matter, yet no one fully knows what is the matter. The matter is I'm tired of babies and children being caught in the cross hairs of adults, who can't control their impulses. I'm tired because everybody feels that only more guns stop bad guns, good people with guns will stop the bad people with guns, not so much, what has been happening is accidental shooting of careless "good" people with guns, who have the attention span of a teetsy fly, but yet have a weapon. What we have is stupid violent criminals, who since have such a love of shooting, should be immediately flown and dropped into some Hot Zone of war and let them shoot away, clearly no life matters to them. They should be sent away and, their families and children will know they actually did something for a purpose, other than driving up and down the street and shooting innocents due to the fact the pin heads you were aiming for are no where to be found, most likely on

It is so easy to cheat, to sneak to not be faithful. Why? it has no substance. It has no real lasting power. I'm so tired of grown folks who got married somebody, much like a naughty toddler does not have enough to keep him or herself busy, so they go creeping around. One would think you'd know that people love attention is this decade, they crave it, they are attention whores, just waiting for someone to DM, snapchat, click a like button. Could be I'm just getting calmer in these my copper bronze years. I have not felt the urge to dip my toe back into the dating pond, because i'm no longer content to be a notch on the bed post, a call when it's my turn on the rotation. Nor do I wish to have a rotation, it is pointless and it wastes my time and my sexual prowess on a man that I'm not his number one, we can't come together, be together as king and queen and run a empire. I'm not sitting in the court with the jesters and ladies in waiting...wai

HISTORY LESSON IT IS FUNNY TO ME , HOW THE WORLD THINKS SINCE WE’VE GOT A BLACK PRESIDENT, ALL OUR TROUBLES AND WOES WILL GO AWAY QUIETLY INTO THE NIGHT…..THAT’S NOT IT. FIRST WE NEED TO ADDRESS THE CONSTANT VIOLENCE AND OTHER NEGATIVE INFLUENCES THAT INVADE OUR HOODS. THE DRUG WARS LEFT US A DAMAGED PEOPLE. THE CRACK BABIES ARE NOW ADULTS WITH NO PAST AS OFTEN THEIR MOTHERS AND GRANDMOTHERS AND OTHER CARE KEEPERS GOT LOST AND STRUNG OUT, LEAVING THE STREETS TO RAISE THEM. THE STREET EDUCATION IS NOT WORKING. WE KILL EACH OTHER WITH NO REMORSE AND TALK ABOUT SOME DUMB ARSE “NO SNITCHING” RULE, WHICH IS DUMB, BECAUSE IF YOU RESEARCH AND STUDY, YOU WILL FIND LIKEMINDED NO SNITCHERS IN PRISON, WHILE WHOMEVER TOLD ON YOUR EMPTY HEAD HAS BEEN UPGRADED, DON’T BELIEVE, WATCH ALL THE CRIMINAL SERIOUS ON NETFLIX, HULU, IT ALL ENDS THE SAME WAY…UNCLE SAM, TAKES THE MONEY, YOU GO TO PRISON FOR EVER AND EVER, THE SNITCH, GETS A SLAP ON THE HAND IF KNOWN, IF UNKNOWN, THEY TAKE THE MONEY AND