ROMANCE

Strange and funny times we are in...something the air so horrid that even a touch for too long a moment could result in disaster. So now that some, SOME people are getting the vaccine and or being super hero careful,some parts of the world are moving forward, but what about romance? I'm thinking who is gonna be out here kissing and smashing all random now? I shudder to think about adult entertainers. Probing questions will really need to go about personal health and responsibility that YOLO group leaves much to be desired. I like life you out here "free facin" thinking they are changing your dna with the shot and it's not real, but you wanna kiss me goodnight? you want to scoot in closer and cuddle and snuggle....ummmm We need to talk. Let us sit safely outside across from one another and figure out what to do and how to proceed. Kissing the long lost art, will it make a comback, it is a great part of romance, not sex, romance. Gotta think about it now, too many people lip and tongue kiss their pets, put objects in their moouths, chew their nails, then kiss you and so on and you see how this could be a issue. This could be the start of a new old revolution....dating and courtship, This could be the time to go back to actually getting to know a person and seeing if they are even compatible beyond the physics of sexual attraction. Could we be going back to real conversations and activities, where both parties plan and share events and outings? I would like to think so. Too many people discovered that the person they locked in with perhaps was NOT all they wanted and they needed more than, pretty or handsome, more than money, more than just great sex. You actually needed someone to talk to, sommeone to talk about your fears and goals, hopes and dreams. Someone who could occupy their time or be helpful or not have a meltdown because of a life change out of your control. Yes I'm hoping this is a sign that romance is making a comeback. That some long walks in the park, some moonlight drives to have real converation will usher the time of romance back again.

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